Friends, Enemies, Lovers and Stalkers

Interesting title isn't it? Well there is a reason for it. In Second Life you will quickly find that you will come across all of these types of people. It is also Possible that all those names could be one person, You could start out as friends, become lovers who may turn out to be stalkers and then become your enemy. If you are lucky this will not happen to you, If you are even luckier you will not have to experience all four. I have been lucky enough not to experience all four, but I have had to deal with all of those terms on separate levels. How do you tell when someone will start as a friend and end up something else? You don't, you cannot be in someones head and know what they are thinking. Are there warning signs? Of course there are, they are in the little things they say and do. When someone is your Friend you tend to have a closer knowledge of that person. You hope to know them but you can't always know what they what they are truly thinking. Some have stalker material written all over them. Yes those are the friends that message you all the time with odd reasons and are never really a true friend. They may be on your list but you never really know them. You know off the bat that there is something off with them, their mindset is off. They are either angry or too loving towards someone they hardly know. They don't listen to reason and they don't like no. These are the ones you watch for and need to leave as soon as possible.

You also have those that start off as friends and for some reason or other you have a falling out and you make an enemy. Whether it is something you did or they did, you never know. The best thing you can do is be careful and try to live the best second life you can. All one can do is be the best you can be. Be true to your self and at least you will know you can do no other. So live the best second life you can and remember the block button and mute can really be your best friend to get rid of those that bother you. It will make things far more enjoyable. So Go have fun and meet the good people in Second life and avoid the bad ones!